men are from mars

it really amazes me how differently men and women are wired. i've been thinking about this over the last few days in the midst of my uncle's death. at the funeral, most of the women were crying, but not the men. my two cousins (men) were utterly straight-faced during their father's funeral today. not to say that they don't have emotions about it, because i know they do. but how do they control it so as to *appear* OK in front of everyone else? i know that if it were i, i'd be a complete disaster. even thinking about it sets of the waterworks. there i go again!

so i am wondering, what does it take for a man to cry?